MY STORY

I’m a trauma healer and feminine embodiment mentor for high achieving women who want to have the time of their life attracting the LOVE of their life.

And understand how to create an ICONIC life.

My mission in 2024 is to be of service to 1,000 amazing women.

THE EARLY DAYS

My journey started decades ago in Chicago when I was in an inpatient program for an eating disorder, and had a longing from the bottom of my soul for a better life.

When I left the inpatient program I went into therapy hoping to find a sense of inner peace and happiness. Over the decades I’ve had 6 therapists, attended healing programs like The Hoffman Institute, and kept searching outside of me for the Magic Bullet of peace and happiness.

MEN + WORK WILL MAKE ME HAPPY!

I used men for the same purpose I used food…..I unconsciously thought, men will make me feel at peace and happy.

I’ve dated over 100 men. And no, I’m not making this number up;-) With each man I kept hoping they would make me feel at peace and happy.

For decades, I lived as an entrepreneur in the tech industry working with the C- Suite of some of the largest companies on the planet, with an inner dialogue on REPEAT that sounded like:

You’re not smart enough. You should have done that differently. You screwed that relationship up. You’re not thin enough. You’re never going to be successful. That amazing man you want doesn’t exist.

I felt consistently burntout, empty, and unfullfilled.

On the outside I looked like I had an ICONIC life dating lots of eligible bachelors, traveling around the world, a home in the fanciest part of San Francisco, and more.

But on the inside I felt empty and like something was missing in my life. I was constantly hunting for something to make me feel better. No matter where I looked to fill the void- - - more clients, more money, a promotion, romantic partners.

I was the definition of Anxious and Avoidant Attachment and found myself consistently feeling hopeless, unhappy, and dying for relief.

2020- IT’S AN INSIDE JOB:-)

In 2020 I found what I’d been looking for…. it was cognitive behavioral work. I quickly realized I have to heal my heart and soul, and rewire my brain. I have to change how I think and feel about myself.

Cognitive behavioral work is so powerful in CHANGING WHO YOU ARE, I got Certified in it.

While the world was shutting down, my spirit and life started to open up as I dove head first into my mind, heart, and soul.

So in a leap of faith in 2020 I started a new business inside my company to mentor high achieving women and men in tech who struggle with burnout and a lack of confidence. I wrote my first book, Rock Your Brain. Rock Your Life, started my podcast, Rock Your Brain. Rock Your Life, created a thriving community, and 14 cutting- edge mindset courses.

I started doubling my business annually and used the same cognitive tools I used on myself and at work to help HUNDREDS OF HUMANS.

The humans I’ve worked with have change their identities so they feel a sense of calm confidence at work, and know how to create an ICONIC life that feels fulfilling!

ENTER THE DIVINE FEMININE

The next area I wanted to go deep and explore was my love life. My heart desires a long term partnership and marriage. So if was the common denominator why my romantic relationships weren’t working out, this only means that I’m the SOLUTION, right?

I studied how to embody being a divine feminine woman, and my first step was healing the last of some anxious and avoidant attachment styles, and codependency.

This inner child HEALING allowed my nervous system to embody and own my desires, pour what fills up my heart and soul into myself, and show up with men as a soft divine feminine being.

I am now a woman who trusts herself and men. A woman who loves the polarity of the masculine and the feminine, and honors my deep desire to be claimed and led by a man. To feel safe, protected, adored and cared for my him. To allow HIM to lead.

All I have to do is lean back, receive, be soft, stay certain about my desires, sexy, and embody knowing I’M THE PRIZE.

This is how I show up in dating, and what I teach my clients today!

2024 - #THE ICONIC LIFE

In January 2024, I went to a women’s salon about hormone replacement therapy (HRT). I looked around and felt the mostly fear based energy of about 40 women who were struggling with finding their voices in love, doubting they could ask their doctors for HRT, and feeling too shitty physically and or emotionally to date.

I decided that night to honor my soul and go ALL IN on being of MASSIVE service to women.

I have built a platform that supports women in their LOVE lives.

I help women have the time of their life attracting the love of their life.

My clients want to be in passionate soul filling life long relationships.

With my unique method, the challenges around love and dating MELT AWAY LIKE SNOW IN THE SUN.

My clients have fun dating and being in relationships, feel confident and at ease in their feminine, and think: “DAMN, I’M THE PRIZE” and actually mean it.

Think of me as a mentor for ICONIC women who hate dating, and struggle in love.

Because if we’re honest with what our heart so desperately tries to whisper to us daily, we really want to to wake upevery morning, roll over and passionately kiss, and know we’re creating a 1 + 1 = 1,000 life together!

Let’s Go Loves!

Certified Cognitive Mindset Coach from The Life Coach School

Certified The Silva Mind Control Method

Workshop at the members only club The Battery in San Francisco.