Ep 23: Unconditional Love—It's for You
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE:
How we learn to love conditionally vs unconditionally
The neuroscience behind why love feels so good
What to do when you think other people’s emotions cause your feelings
How to use unconditional love as fuel for your goals and dreams
SHOW NOTES
I’m willing to bet that most of us were taught to love on a conditional basis by our families of origin or society. Our brains learned early on in our lives that in order to feel safety, love, and belonging, we needed to be “good” and “worthy” and meet other’s expectations. We then quickly applied these metrics to ourselves and others, and thus the cycle gets perpetuated.
The main problem with this framework of conditional love is that it sets us up for constant painful experiences. When we expect our partners or others we’re in relationships to do what we want when we want them to, and they don’t? We feel pain. When we expect ourselves to show up perfectly and we don’t? We feel pain.
Today, I want to go deep with you on this concept of unconditional love. How can it serve you, as fuel for your goals or simply as an amazing part of the human experience. How could your relationships with yourself or others improve if you chose to own your thoughts & feelings, and choose love? These are deep questions, but can truly revolutionize your daily life. Tune in to this episode to get curious about these questions, and many more, that can help you tap into unconditional love, as a gift to YOURSELF.
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